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Are You Right Sized? Self-Aware Needs Self-love. Do You Judge Your Personality's Traits Instead of Your Personality Defects?

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We are made intelligently by the universe with randomly diverse beautiful abilities . I believe anyway.  I often get frustrated when people with big personalities feel guilty for some of the traits of their person.  My friend Tracy in the AA meetings is alpha and she's a female with a real boss as bitch vibe.  She is probably an alpha a lot of times when she's the only women. She and I probably alpha men as frequently most men who are alphas are the point man on things.  This happens to me sometimes,.  Women are often made to feel like we are obnoxious when they intimidate men because they've out shown them.  In AA we have to pick apart our shortcomings because these can cause us to drink. But how often do we take it too seriously and judge our own personalities instead. From what I hear when people discuss step four, shortcomings, we often judge too harshly the things that also define us.  For the survivor, picking apart shortcomings can also be a dan...